Learn The Lingo

Every Wednesday, users of social media will use this hashtag religiously in order to showcase their women crushes.
Example: "Don’t feel guilty for doing what’s best for you." #WCW

(noun)

A sexual position that allows partners to give each other oral sex at the same time.

Example: "We tried the 69 last night."

(noun)

Type of sexual act where a penis, finger, or sex toy is inserted into someone’s anus for pleasure.

Using lube and patience is recommended when having anal sex. Go at your own rythm, and let your body adjust.

Example: "Do you want to try anal sex?"

(noun)

An affectionate term used to address or refer to one’s girlfriend, boyfriend, spouse, etc…

Stands for “before anyone else”.

Example: "Stacey is my bae.", "Hey, bae."

(verb/noun)

Sexual activity typically involving the insertion and thrusting of the penis into the vagina for sexual pleasure, reproduction, or both. This is also known as vaginal intercourse or vaginal sex.

Example: "I'm going to 'get it' tonight."

(noun)

1st Base – Is Kissing, french, open mouth or just a peck. Also, any above the belt touching is included in this base.

2nd Base – Hands below the belt. Fingering for girls or hand jobs for the guys.

3rd Base – When mouths are used below the belt. Essentially going down on a guy or girl. This base includes the use of sex toys.

4th Base or Home base/plate – Going “all the way,” doing the deed, slamming it, fucking, sex, intercourse, “doin it,” getting frisky so on and so forth.

(some people use a 5th base or a ‘grand slam’ to refer to anal sex, while others include it in the 4th base. It is really up to the individuals whether they want to include it)

Example: "We made it all the way to 3rd base."

(noun)

Inserting a penis into a mouth for the purpose of sexual pleasure.

Example: "Have you ever had a blow job?"

(noun)

Term individuals will use to describe an aching feeling in the testicles when excited, but does not ejaculate.

Occasionally, blood flow can actually remain trapped for some time and cause a heaviness feeling in the testicles.

Example: "The male contestants on 'Too Hot To Handle' had blue balls."

(noun)

Slang typically used to describe genitals that look infected with several sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

*Not an actual thing

Example: "Jeremy has blue waffles."

(noun)

An erect penis

Example: "I have a boner."

(noun)

Two prominences located on the upper ventral region of the torso.

Example: "Killa's breasts are sore."

(noun)

In a sexual relationship between two members of the same sex, the bottom is the one on the receiving end of anal sex. The term can also be used to refer to a person as being the more submissive person in the relationship. It is often assumed that the bottom is always submissive, however a bottom can also be dominant.

Example: "Who in the couple is the bottom."

(noun)

A physique regarded as typical of an order male.

Example: "Chris Pratt has a dad bod."

(noun)

Dick pic is slang for an image of a penis, typically sent and received via electronic devices.

Example: "Jammy was flustered after receiving a dick pic."

(adverb)

A sexual position where one partner is on hands and knees and the other behind them.

Example: "We did it doggie style last night."

(adjective)

Initialism standing for down to fuck, meaning that someone is willing to engage in a short-term sexual relationship.

Example: "Are you DTF"

(verb)

Slang for oral sex with a vagina.

Also known as : muff diving / cunnilingus / going down / oral sex

Example: "Before we had sex, he ate me out."

(noun)

A word used to describe something that is intensely emotional on a level somewhere between you feeling empty and you on the floor in a ball weeping uncontrollably.

Can be used as a noun in a format which implies it is something that is a part of your body.

Example: "That hit me right in the feels."

(noun)

A particularly aggravating metaphorical place that people end up in when someone they are romantically interested in only wants to be friends. It tends to be difficult to get over someone while in the friendzone. They may often still be around too often to be erased from your memory; yet, you cannot be with them the way you want to be.

Example: "Sadip was friend zoned by his crush."

(adjective)

Extremely attractive; “hot”.

Example: "That girl/boy is fine."

(noun)

A friend with whom one has casual sex.

Example: "We're not together. At best, we're friends with benefits."

(noun)

A boy who doesn’t respect girls very much. He’s distant, doesn’t care about their time, and won’t commit to a romantic relationship. He’s self-absorbed, does stupid things, and plays with their emotions.

Example: "Jess is dating a fuck boy."

(noun)

A part of your identity is the feeling of being feminine, masculine, both or neither. This feeling can be influenced by the beliefs that exist about "femininity" and "masculinity".

Your gender may range from what is typically seen as masculine/feminine or a combination of both. (-see Gender Fluid)

Example: "I've changed my legal gender to male."

(noun)

Feeling both “masculine” and “feminine” at different times or on different levels.You might feel like the typical feelings of "masculine" or "feminine" don't concern you at all. ( - see Gender non conforming)

Example: "I know that I was born a boy, but I feel more like a girl sometimes, I guess I'm gender-fluid."

(noun)

Not feeling like you are either “masculine” or “feminine” and you want to live your gender the way you want to.

Example: "I don't feel like I belong to any gender. I might be gender non conforming."

(verb)

Lightweight ghosting: Having a single message ignored. This is the most common experience when dating.

Midweight ghosting: After some contact and relationship building. While you feel the first date went fairly well, your partner ens all contact.

Heavyweight ghosting: Without explanation, someone cuts off all contact with a person they have been romantically and/or sexually involved with.

Example: "My friend's been ghosting me since yesterday."

(noun)

Slang for manual stimulation of another person’s genitals, typically referring to stimulating a person’s penis.

Example: "I could really use a hand job right now."

(noun)

The correct term for touching yourself (particularly the genitals). Sex for one.
Masturbation can be a good way to relax and to explore your body to find what you like/turns you on.
Also known as: wanking / playing with yourself.

Example: "Masturbation is a normal bodily function."

(noun/verb)

A phrase that can be applied to the actual act of relaxing and watching the streaming service Netflix (perhaps while hanging out with someone else), or as a pretense or euphemism for getting together with someone to have sex.

Example: "You want to go Netflix and Chill"

(noun)

A sexual encounter that only happens one time.

Example: "I had a one-night stand with Jadegaya."

(noun)

The highest point of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and marked normally by ejaculation of semen by the male and by involuntary vaginal contractions in the female.

Example: "The female climax is ever elusive."

(noun)

Technical name for male genitalia.

Also known as : cock/dick/schlong/package/dong

Example: "I think I should have the doctor look at the wort on my penis."

(noun)

Being romantically involved with more than one person.

Example: "Alex, Micheal and Jammy are in a polyamorous relationship."

(noun)

Pictures/film/litterature that is highly sexually explicit, showing individuals having sex or in sexual situations. Legally, individuals watching porn, and individuals in the porn material, must be over 18 years of age. The purpose of porn is to sexually arouse.

Example: "My friend really enjoys watching porn."

Stands for Point Of View

Often used when writing stories to indicate in whose point of view the writing it in.

Example: "Derek's POV"

(noun)

The pubescence or hairiness of the genitals, which appears at puberty.

Example: "At puberty, your pubes grow out."

(noun)

A romantic or sexual involvement.

Example: "I'm in a relationship."

(noun)

Relationship goals is a phrase that refers to an admirable relationship. It is commonly used to describe a romantic couple or an action by the couple that you want to someday achieve in your own love life.

The phrase is commonly preceded with a hashtag (#) next to an image or story that illustrates what you are trying to attain. Some examples of relationship goals are a thoughtful act by a partner, an adorable picture of the two, or a loving compliment.

Example: "I think my relationship goals are too high."

(noun)

Your sexual feelings, thoughts, attractions and behaviours toward other people. You can find other people physically, sexually or emotionally attractive, and all those things are a part of your sexuality.

Example: "I'm still figuring out my sexuality."

(verb)

Sending sexually explicit text messages back and forth with a partner. The texts usually describe what one will do to the other person when they have sex.

Example: "We were sexting all night long."

(verb)

A term that refers to doing something really well, like a test; can also describe the domination of another person, whether it is in a sporting competition or dissing someone; may appear as “slaying” or “slayed,” as well.

Example: "We slayed in the competition."

(noun)

Stands for sexually transmitted infection. They are transmitted or contracted through sexual contact, often through sexual fluids (vaginal secretion, sperm, pre-cum), sometimes through blood, and skin-to-skin contact.

Example: "I went to get an STI test."

(noun)

Part of the male reproductive system, and are located beneath the penis in the scrotum.

Also called: Balls, Nuts, Bollocks, Rocks, Family Jewels, Cojones, Testes, Gonads…

Example: "She kicked me right in the balls."

(adjective)

In pursuit of attention or validation of one's attractiveness.

OR

slang Desperately desirous of a sexual encounter, often with a particular person.

Example: "She's thirsty for you."

(noun)

Toss salad is a sexual act in which one person licks the other person's anus’ for sexual arousal.

Example: "Let's try a doing a toss salad."

(adjective)

Part of someone's gender identity (- see Gender), a Trans person is someone who does not feel like the sex they were born with. For example, if a person was born a male, they might feel more feminine.

OR

If a person is born a female, they might feel more masculine. A person does not have to undergo gender confirmation surgery to be considered Trans. They may choose to live their gender in any way they want.

Example: "Kyla's dad is transgender."

(noun)

The term for female genitalia. It is the passageway from the uterus to the outside of the body. This is where menstrual blood, vaginal fluids and babies exit the body. During sexual intercourse, it is also where a penis, a finger or an object is inserted for sexual pleasure.

Also known as: pussy/muff/va-g-g/kitten/

Example: "I've started shaving my vagina."

(noun)

Refers to a person who is a virgin.

While there is no medical definition, it often means a person who has never had sexual intercourse. How sexual intercourse is defined is up to each individual.

Example: "I lost my virginity to Alex."